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Delusional Jealousy is a recognised psyciatric condition in which the person holds a persistant, strongly held belief that thier partner is being unfaithful, dispite insuuficient evidence.​

 

My Story

This is not a website for Dusional Jealousy support. It is mainly a site that I have published for people that have attecked me, and not supported my pleas for help to resolve my wife's DJ issues. However, seeing my problems in reality, what I went through, can possibly help people suffering from DJ or give an insight to the problems that the long-suffering partner will go through. My story illustrates the devastating impact that Delusional Jealousy (DJ) can have on a partner, family, friends, and, at times, financial security.

 

The Evidence
The evidence I present includes emails, Messenger conversations, abusive messages directed at me,and threats of physical violence. It also documents the effect on my own mental wellbeing, including the constant fear of arrest resulting from false ccusations. The evidence also includes messages to family and friends in which I pleaded for support in the hope of saving our marriage.

The Consequences

The consequences were profound. After ten years together, I reached the painful conclusion that, for the sake of both of us, I had to leave my wife. This was not the end of a loveless relationship. It was the end of a marriage between two people who genuinely loved each other, but which had become impossible to sustain.

Help and Resources

Treatment is available through psychiatrists and appropriate medication. However, one of the greatest difficulties is that a person experiencing delusional jealousy may not recognise that their beliefs are the result of an illness. Without that insight, they may be unwilling to seek help.

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In a wider context

​​​​​​​ I do not hold my wife solely responsible. I believe greater responsibility is with the family members and friends—both hers and mine—who chose not to engage, communicate, or offer support despite my repeated requests for help.

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If you are living with a partner affected by DJ, I hope these pages help you understand the challenges ahead. If you a sufferer of Delusional Jealousy, I encourage you to consider the consequences of avoiding professional help, even when it feels easier to believe everyone else is wrong.

 

In the future, I hope to develop a new site, specifically as a resource for all those affected by Delusional Jealousy.

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It is advised to, Zoom-in, for the smaller text. I apologise for Filipino text at times, but the site is mainly aimed at Filipino, friends? and family.

 

Edward Charles Poskett